The Years Go By…..
I see a doctor,
I’m in pain
You look fine
Let’s try again
They run some tests
The labs look good
You’re in perfect health
But I don’t feel as I should
Can we look some more?
Somethings not right.
It’s probably just anxiety.
And thus begins my fight.
My mind is fine
It’s my body that’s broke
You made up your mind
Before I even spoke
There’s plenty of tests
That have never been run
You ran basic labs
Assumed nothing else can be done
So off I’m sent
Specialists galore
Once again basic labs
Not much to explore
You’ve checked off the norm
But I don’t fit in a box
See mental health
You’ll heal with those talks
Mental health said see Neuro
I’ve been there before
Pushed back in the box
Then shoved out the door
No one will listen
Somethings not right
It’s slowly progressive
I’m losing this fight
You’ve had ‘extensive tests’
And which would that be?
Only basic panels
No in-depth testing for me.
There’s mito, myopathy
And dystrophy
You don’t present like the norm
What norm? Can’t you see?
Adult onset is different
It’s misunderstood
You assume we should fit
We would if we could.
The literature’s outdated
The training is slim
No time to read studies
Let’s just blame them.
The kid showing signs
The same as me
It’s all in my head?
How can that be?
There are so many tests
Yet to be done
I’ve asked many times
You think this is fun?
This is my life
It’s falling apart
You see mere moments
But not from the start.
I use to keep my house
Everything in order
Now it’s collecting dust
Feeling like a hoarder
I had meals on the table
The neighborhood mom
Now I struggle to stay upright
I’m losing my calm
I don’t build endurance
My muscles fatigue quick
Weakness is present
My body feels sick
My kidneys leak protein
My gut won’t absorb fats
Tachycardia is present
Low blood pressure my stats.
My stomach shows bleeding
Esophagus gets stuck
Small bowels with rare findings
Now sort through this muck!
I want answers for my health
I should have that right
This is the life that I live
This should not be a fight
Appointments take months
Just to be seen
Some specialist’s years out
The wait in between
The process is slow
It does no good
Healthcare’s messed up
It’s not as it should
Where are the centers?
For a comprehensive exam
With doctors of all specialties
Rare disorders their plan
Don’t judge a book by its cover
They say
Yet you’re doing just that
And I’m left to pay
I’m angry, I’m hurting
My life up in smoke
Disabled and broken
Pulled down by this yoke
I feel the progression
Slowly take hold
My limbs will lock up
If I’m feeling cold
Repetition paralysis
Also exists
There’s testing for that
I will insist!
Scoliosis, kyphosis,
A pelvic tilt
Can’t support my posture
My body will wilt.
Migraines, brain lesions
Double vision as well
This is my nightmare
I’m living in hell
Early onset cataracs
Bad vision at night
Super dry eyes
Surgery I might
Scaring in the lungs
Mitral valve prolapse
Shakey jelly legs
Ready to collapse
Chronic high cholesterol
Yet no weight on my frame
Plaque calcified in my arteries
That’s for the old, they claim
Bone inflammation,
Stress reactions they say
3 years in a wheelchair
For that I did pay.
One step from a fracture
Bilateral too
Explain that to me!
What should I do?
This is not normal
It all adds up
Where are the answers?
It’s filled my cup!
Hypermobile as well
Let me show you my tricks
My kid’s knee will dislocate
It’s not a simple fix
My list is long,
Some you’ve never heard
Knowledge is lacking
Training has not occurred
Myalgic encephalomyelitis
Can you pronounce that?
Dysautonomia as well
Your experience falls flat.
Epstein barr reactivated
My immune system shot
Low C3, still exploring
But Lupus it’s NOT.
Abnormal gait
My skeleton misaligned
Some bone abnormalities
Organ differences you’ll find
Occasional burst veins
Petechial spots on my skin
Inflammatory bowel disease
I just can’t win!
Numb leg for a year
Sunburn feel on my back
Stabbing toe pain
I wish that one, I lacked!
Bowel spasms that drop me
My bladder too
My esophagus joins that list
What do I do?
Fasciculations and spacisity
Muscle spasms and pain
Internal tremors for years
Yet they can’t explain?!
Hiatal hernia repair
My gallbladder out
Multiple cysts, necrotic appendix
What’s next? I shout
Let’s see, there’s the uterus, that’s gone,
rectocele times two
Interstitial cystitis,
Neurogenic too
Anemia, iron deficiency
Low sodium, low potassium
Low ALP, low CK, low BUN,
No answers, I’ve asked for them!
Low anion gap, low ferritin,
Low vitamin D
My numbers look beautiful
Nothing to see.
My labs were all normal
My CT too
Yet full of IBD
And you never knew
I told you I’m a zebra
I don’t present in the norm
No inflammation in my blood
Based on basic panels, your form.
There are other lab markers that exists
But you’re not in the know
Don’t blame my mind for your ignorance
healthcare is a shit show.
Send me to specialists
Who know rare disease
22 years I’ve been waiting
I’m really displeased
Takes 15 years on average
For those like me
To finally get answers
It’s a simple plea
Our system is broken
Too much time lost on blame
Their ignorance is speaking
When they play their basic game.
You don’t fit in their box
It must be your mind
Without truly looking
There’s nothing to find
How do you fight a system
When your crippled and done
The fatigue is daunting
Sensory overload won
Words coming out backwards
Your memory lacking
Assisted devices for everything
Once sharp now cracking
Brain fog is strong,
Simple things now hard
Held down by this body
My freedom is barred.
If not for me,
Then for my kids sake
What is going on?
This is not fake!
She’s taking advantage of the system
Hypochondria is strong!
She just wants pain meds
How badly they’re wrong.
Somatic symptom disorder
You’re thinking on it too much
It affects me nearly every moment
I’m pained by simple touch!
She’s simply an anxious mind
But it’s only here I get spun
All the gaslighting, accusations
PTSD is no fun!
I’ve been accused of so much
Your judgements off base
I’d love to see your response
If you suffered what I face!
But wait! There’s more! Should I go on?
Nystagmus, ataxia,
vertigo too
Thank God that’s less frequent.
Oh, emphysema! But that’s on you!
Endometriosis, Menorrhagia,
Bilateral labral tears
Gastritis, Bile duct dilation,
Severe abdominal pain in flares
Constant pain in my hips
Endless in my butt and thighs
Hurts to stand, to walk, or sit
What causes this pain to arise?
It’s too rare to exist,
The doctor does boast!
No, it’s not as rare as you think,
Just simply rarely diagnosed
Dianne MacKay 4/2/22
To those who suffer from rare disease.
I read your posts, I hear your plea’s.